Now, as a full-time wedding and event planner, I enjoy seeing creative projects come to fruition.
It was only three weeks until her wedding day, and her chef/caterer – whom she had booked months in advance – had bailed on her. After I calmed her down, I helped her contact a caterer I knew from working many of the same weddings together. Whew. Crisis averted.
A couple of weeks later, that same bride called me. She was frantic. Two nights before her wedding, her seamstress informed her that she had completed less than two of the ten bridesmaid dresses she was supposed to make!
In this case, she wasn’t calling for my advice. She was calling to see if I had a sewing machine she could borrow. I did, but I knew access to a sewing machine would not provide her the immediate stress relief she needed!
Calmly, I told her, "You don't need a sewing machine. You need to get your bridesmaids organized. Hit up different department stores until you find a dress in the right color and available in the sizes you need. Have whoever finds them buy the dresses on the spot and meet later to have everyone try them on.” My plan worked. This bride could go into her wedding day with less to worry about.
It all began in 1975 – when I made our own wedding cake.
Then, in 1977, I crafted a cake for my wife's first cousin's wedding.
Fast forward to 1996. One of my wedding cake clients, who had DIY-ed her wedding planning, called me in distress.
After that experience, my mind was drawn to all the other DIY couples out there, struggling with the overwhelm of planning their own wedding.
2009: I created a high school course called Event Hospitality and Tourism Management.
In 2010 and 2012, I planned and coordinated two weddings for which I won awards for "Best Weddings with a Budget between $25,000 and $90,000.”
In 2019, I retired from education after 42 years of teaching high school.